Ask Flex / The micromanaging boss
Why do bosses micromanage?
Mostly because they're worried, about pressure from their own boss, a past surprise, or work they can't see. It's rarely about how good you are, which is why doing better work alone doesn't stop it.
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Find out what they're worried about.
Watch what they check
Deadlines, wording, or where you are? That tells you what they're worried about.
Ask what would help
"What would you like to see more of from me?"
Show the work early
A rough draft on Tuesday beats a surprise on Friday.
See how they treat others
It is usually the same with everyone.
My boss micromanages. Here's what they check on most: [describe]. Tell me what they're probably worried about, and write a short update I could send that answers that worry before they ask.
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What does a micromanaging boss look like?
They check finished work, approve small things, and ask for updates you already gave. Flex has a page on it.
How do I deal with an insecure micromanaging boss?
Give them fewer surprises. Share drafts early and say what is coming next.
How do I deal with a new micromanaging boss?
New bosses often hover until they know your work. Send steady updates for a month, then ask if you can space them out.
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