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Ask Flex / The micromanaging boss

Ask Flex

How do you deal with a micro­managing coworker?

"How do I deal with a micromanaging coworker? They're not even my boss."You asked Google. Flex answered.
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Flex's short answer

Tell them where things stand before they come looking, then say kindly and plainly that you've got it. A coworker isn't your boss, so you can politely tell them you'll handle it.

✱ The video

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✱ Flex's tips

Tell them you've got it.

1

Share first

"The report is on track for Friday."

2

Say the line

"Thanks, I've got this one."

3

Ask what they need

Sometimes their work is waiting on yours.

4

Take it up once

If it keeps going, ask your boss who owns what.

Try this in your own Claude or ChatGPT

A coworker keeps checking my work and telling me how to do it, and they're not my boss. Here's what happens: [describe]. Write a short, kind message that tells them where things stand and that I've got it handled.

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✱ What people ask
How do I respond to a micromanaging coworker?

"Thanks for looking out. I've got this one, and I'll shout if I need a hand."

How do I work with a micromanaging coworker?

Agree out loud on who owns what. Most of it stops when the lines are clear.

How do I deal with a micromanaging team lead?

Treat it like a boss: short updates on a set schedule. Flex has a page on it.

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